Post 84: Right or Wrong or just life?

Do you ever feel like you constantly say or do the wrong thing? That is how I feel with my children and walking at the mall.

I have good children, but they are children - full of energy & fun. They see the world, even the mall, as potential for the next big "fun" game. It could be hopscotch on the different colored tiles or finding the secret symbols (usually colored circles on the floor) to help us pass to the next level.

This week; however, the children are determined to play games that involve running.

I don't have a lot of rules. But the rules I do have must be followed.

1 - No running in the mall.

2 - Be respectful of the other walkers.

3 - Stay with your partner at all times.

4 - wait for mom before turning the corner.

All my rules deal with keeping my children safe, the other walkers (many of whom are elderly) safe, and give me peace of mind.

When a rule is broken, I simply remind the children of the rule. No punishment. No consequences. No lecture. Just a reminder.

What have I been getting this week? Stomping feet and sulking children.

Not sure what I am doing or saying wrong. Is it there age? Is it just the fact they are children? Am I asking to much?

Not sure if it matters. Walking at the mall will stay in place until spring comes & we can move to the park (or some annoying crisis like bed bugs pops up again).

I love walking. Hopefully, my children come to enjoy it without the running...